Thursday, July 31, 2014

our fate is in our hand

recently, my mum bring me to go see "feng Shui".
it was my first experience of doing it so i am exited for it.
when the morning came, i woke up at 7am and stuck in the jam to reach endah parade in sri petaling from Pj.
i reach there at 9am and the shop is already long queue with crowd.
so i get a number from the receptionist, it was 36of the day. meaning i have to wait for 35 person before my turn. when my turn finally came it was already 6pm in the afternoon!
thanks to my phone and a good place to nap to keep me from boredom.

basically feng shui master said i will live prosperity in the future will a lot of money and do not have to work in the future. and he said i will have travel luck in this year ( which is quite true because i was flying to bangkok that week).

He also said that i will not be able to get marry in my life because my love line is totally block and it leads to constantly failure in relationship. when i heard this , i finally understand why he said i will live prosperity in my older life. because i dont have husband and children to support, of course i will be rich!

but a second thought, i choose not to believe in what he said. he said, to change the fate he need to come and visit my house and change the feng shui which will cost me Rm3800. unfortunately i do not have the money so i said 'bye bye' to him and went back.

what i learnt from this is our fate always lie in our hand and it is always up to us to decide how it should be but not others. we should not be influence by the words of others but should stand still upon our points and view. this apply both in life and work. i still believe that i will be able to find a good guy and get marry. my ambition is to be SUCCESSFUL HOUSEWIFE.

Penang trip during raya

the purpose of me writing this post is because i experienced something very different and i have never faced it before in my life.

this raya holiday, my family decided to go Penang for a two days one night holiday trip. why we choose raya? this is because its the only time where everyone of us is on holiday and have spare time.
we set off on friday mid night, and i am the driver as mummy is old and have eye sight problem in night. at first, i choose to leave at mid night because i thought it will be less traffic jam. BUT! out of my expectation , when i left my house at 3am and reach highway at 4am, the highway was jam packed with cars!!!

everywhere rest room i stopped is full of crowd. mostly malay of course. Suddenly i am thinking in my mind why the hell would i make myself in this situation?

the traffic is super exaggerating bad! it took me 10 hours to reach Penang whereby people normally only spend 6 hours~ and the jam causing me have to keep pressing my break, i almost cant feel my leg anymore when i stopped. Also, i accidentally bumped into a Kancil backside on the way. Thank God the car just got a bit scratch and the car owner did not want me to compensate him. But my car bumper was half gone~ i got a bad scolding from my mum which make my driving journey more gloomy.

when i reach Penang, i was super exhausted that the only things i do is sleep,sleep, and sleep. i could not wake up to do anything despite how my mum try to drag me out.So, the moment when i am finally conscious, its already the last day of my trip.  we were already checking out the hotel. so, in short, I DID NOT VISIT ANYWHERE. out of my very unwillingness and sadness, my mum finally took me to batu ferringi for a luxurious seafood lunch which make me feel so much better and comfort. this is the only thing i do in Penang.

After that, we return to KL. Malaysia is such a wonderful country that it give me a chance to really take a look at the mountain and the field. why do i say so? because during the journey back i spent another 10 hours of driving!!!! the slow moving traffic give me the great chance to count the amount of AES on the road. i think i even can remember how many R&R on the road. I LOVE MALAYSIA.

In conclusion, what did i learnt from this trip?
I learnt that i will never ever ever go anywhere during big holiday occasion anymore!! this is to avoid from the heavy traffic jam and also to avoid family war. because bad temper from driving lead to frustration and lead to war. yes.
secondly, for the first time in my life i actually learnt that i can actually sleep for that long. it was a new discovery and i am very happy with that discovery. Apart from that i also learnt that i should always schedule my trip before i set off and never every trust WAZE anymore but only GOOGLE NAVIGATION  because WAZE lead me to a further route. also i learnt to always go toilet first before i start my journey because before i reach the highway there is no toilet for me and i almost burst my urinary bladder on the road.

still, it was a pleasant trip because i get to spent quality time with families and also to enjoy our country beautiful scenery. i will not want to go back there again . thank you.

A Person Attitude


I have an assignment same group with an unknown friend call Jenny. Jenny is came from another  courses and arranged by tutor to have same assignment group. There were four members in this assignment, included me, two friends (same course with me) and Jenny. I face a communicate problem and some arguments with her.

In assignment group, communicate problem will make all group member trouble in doing assignment.Even though I have communicate problem with Jenny, it will not affect others group member and me. My friend always helped me to soothing the situation happened.
This communicate problem will also affect the work that we separated. Jenny requested to have the slightly work for her to do. It is because she having huge workload in others assignments. I am angry that what she told to me and my group members. I was thinking that we also having much assignment to complete in coming week.

Finally, we managed to complete the assignment and hand up on time. 
I have learnt two things in this assignment. First, I will select and choose my friends as my group member. It is easy for me and other group members to complete the assignment. Second, I will try to search a better way to communicate with dislike people. In additional, I have to improve my emotional having in any situation. A person who has high emotional will easy to control the bad situation happened.

A war with assignment

the reason for writing this assignment is due to the heavy workload of assignment last week and caused some problems to happened. this inspired me a lot and also change my way of doing things.

i had a lot of assignment last week . the due date fall on the same week. i did my part weeks ago, but due to some irresponsible team mate who choose to turn their eyes away from assignment, me and my friends are forced to take their part. This increase my workload a lot because i have to work during the weekend and do not have enough time to finish off all.

so, the only way i can do my work is during mid night. i spent a lot of time finished off all the work and time is normally until 3 am. now, because of sleeping late i could not wake up for my class on monday. i guess i am getting bared for this subject. my mood for that week is really swing, i have cancel all my outing just to focus on my assignment.

through this incident, i learnt i must not do last minute work. because it will kill me. also, i also learnt a very valuable lesson to not only focus on our own part but also must check on other team mate work, because as a team, we united to function better. I also learn to manage my time better onwards because i do not wish to skip class anymore.

I love utar for giving me so much of work to do and letting me to know that i am actually capable of withstanding stress.

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Bangkok trip

This is a throwback post for my Bangkok trip.
Last semester break, I went to Bangkok Thailand with my lovely mother.
It was my first trip oversea, I have never been to overseas before. It definitely an exciting moment for me.

The reason for this trip is because I saw a advertisement of air Asia promoting cheap air ticket,therefore I have decided to go.

I am the only one who in charge of the air ticket and planning and accommodation.my mum trust me and leave all the details for me to handle.

I booked the air tickets 9 months ahead. My friends is the one who helped me to bought the tickets as I do not have any knowledge about it. When the time is about to come, I started to survey about the  places to visit. Bangkok is the heaven of shopping which we will definitely mot miss out.basically I only briefly planned a few places to go.

The day before the trip, I was very excited until I am suffering insomnia, I have to wake up 5am to catch my flight but I was totally awake till that time.

We reach klia 2at 7am. After checking in I realized I made a very big mistake. I forgot to buy the luggage for the flight, which mean my big luggage bag is not allowed to board on plane. But we decided to give it a risk try. My luggage successfully passed through the customs and made it to the plane but all our liquid bottle above 100ml was confiscated. My mum scolded me  badly for this.

But still we made it to Bangkok, it was an amazing place! The food there is very very cheap and nice! A big bowl of pork noodle only for Rm3. I lose control of myself and couldn't keep myself from eating.

We went shopping day and night, clothes and accessories there is as cheap as hell. T shirt is only for Rm10!!! After just two hours of shopping my shopping bag has already full loaded.
Other than shopping we also went to high tea at a very classy hotel. At night we went to massage at our hotel massage center. It was a very relaxing moment.

Basically our 4days 3night is just shopping, massaging and eating. We came back malaysia with our luggage overload and was fined for the luggage.

I enjoy travel a lot. Bangkok is definitely worth returning again. But I will be more caution and details next time. I will remember to check in luggage before we go again next time so that things like this can be avoided. I will also be more detail in searching for the place to go because we once lost our way when we are trying to get to a cafe.
I Also learnt the skills to bargain for cheaper price when I am shopping. It is definitely an enjoyable trip.

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Pets world 2014

last weekend, just before welcoming the beautiful month of July,  i have the opportunity to work for Petswonderland in pets world fair 2014.
It was a weekend  3 days event held in Mid Valley exhibition hall.
What inspired me to write this post is because i really felt something throughout this event and i would really like to share it out. What drive me to write is because of what i have seen with my own eyes during the event.

So, it was a pets fair, customers are allow to bring their own dog to the fair provided they follow the following rules:
























Unfortunately, when i was working there, i noticed a lot of visitors actually ignore the DO & DON'ts. you can still see some visitors allow their pets to pee and poo on the carpet or everywhere, most terrible of all is that they don't even bother to clean up their pets leftover at all. I even saw some of them just walked away after their pets finished their business. For me, i would say that this is a very inconsiderate act. There are thousand of people walking in and out of the fair, and the place to be frank is very crampy and squeezy. Other visitor who did not pay attention to it might ended up stepping on the poo and pees. And i am not exaggerating it, i do saw few times people cleaning up their feet at toilet because of this.

Besides, some also ignore the rules to leash their dogs when they enter! This is very important and also why the organization choose to highlight this rules. Leashing the dog not only because for safety precaution but also to be considerate to others who might not allow to get contact with dog for example like muslim. we all know the fact that they are not allowed to touch the dog, leaving the dog unchain and believing that it is well trained enough is a totally wrong idea.

During the second day of the event, one particular owner bring over 4 doggies without leashing them , she thought she could handle them well. but the truth is the other way round.
the doggy get excited and starting to running around the hall causing big kaos among visitors and also some muslim. I heard muslim shouting and yelling and cursing. This would leave a very bad impression for muslim about the pets world crew ability to control the event. They never think that what if they went to complain and this fair is forever banded to held again? Besides muslim, leaving the dog unleash is also a very dangerous act. This is because during the fair, there is hundred of doggy there regardless of size and breed. Doggy who never come across this kind of situation might have fear and anxiousty. If they wasn't chained properly they might end up fighting with other dog or creating accident to others. We cannot blame the dog for having this kind of act but the owner themselves must be responsible for it.

Other than these unpleasant incident, i still find the fair very interesting and fun experience. I get to see my favourite dog of all times!!!
tibetan mustiff!
it was prohibited to have it in malaysia. The organization only get the approver to shift from tibet to for this pet fair purpose. Whenever the tibetan is around, the crowd is there, Everyone is squeezing to take picture with this big giant dog. It was taking care by two bodyguard of its own.

Not only doggy! there is a lot of other animals in the fair such like cars, rabbits,hamsters,guinea pigs, turtle, fish and etc.

another unforgettable animal i saw is FOX!
yes you heard me no wrong, FOX!
when i saw it i thought it was a chihuahua.
till i find the size extremely odd and small and i asked the guy incharge and he told me it was a fox~
The fox was imported all the way far from Egypt and cost RM20,000. very very big figure. let alone the maintenance of it.
But it really impress me alot. Fox is very smart animal. they look extremely lovely with those really big ears that help to detect single noises far away.















Apart from all these fun experiences, i would like to talk about my after feeling for this work.
it was a pleasant experience to work for petswonderland @pro plan booth.
i was a  cashier for them because i once worked for them for 9 months period.
i enjoyed the atmosphere there. we talked and laughed and have a lots of fun.
The boss of Proplan buys us expensive high tea everyday too. things like TWG macarons and starbucks drinks.
thanks to my sister who is the marketing executive for petswonderland, i get to know a lot of supplier and big boss from other company brand introduced by my sister. In the gap i get to explore another business to make money which i am really grateful of my sister.


the three days fair was wrapped up by very good sales and also dinner treat by Proplan boss again.
it was very very tiring job as i have to wake up very early in the morning but end work very late at night.
but i do learned a lot of very crucial lessons from this work.

First of all, i learned to be a responsible dog owner, to take good care of my dog when he is out and also the right way to take care of them including the knowledge of feeding them the right food. even though i have been working at pets shop before but i think learning is a forever process which will not stop.

Also, i learned the right way to social. I always thought i am quite good enough to social. but that was all my own thought. during the interaction with my sister and her big boss friends, i realize i was wrong. My sister was far way more a good social butterfly than me. she knows when to say the right thing, when to give and take, when to seize the opportunity to push the company sales and reputation. for one very good example, during the last night, they suggested to go for dinner after work.At that very moment i was very tired and instantly i said no, i am very tired and i want to go home. but my sister actually agree to the deal. moments after that, my sister told me that to be a successful corporate person you must learn to give and take. even you don't feel like doing so you still have to say yes, because that is how the world run. If you offended anyone higher rank above you you might lose your job the very next minute.

Her word makes me think a lot. I'm still fresh and green in this world. there is still tons of knowledge and lessons waiting for me to learn. and i really hope that learning all these doesn't change me to become a complicated person. despite how the world goes, i still hope to keep myself simple.